Relationship Coaching for Those Who Want More Connection—Not Just Conflict Resolution
You’ve built love, trust, and a life together. You’ve navigated challenges, celebrated wins, and created something real.
But you’re craving more —
more depth,
more clarity,
more intimacy.
You may notice:
The same communication patterns looping, even when you both mean well.
Emotional or sexual needs that don’t always align.
A longing for passion, play, and connection that matches the love you already share.
This isn’t about “fixing” what’s broken — it’s about refining what’s already good into something remarkable.
A Private, Curated Coaching Experience for Partners and Lovers Who Want to Go Deeper
In this work, you’ll experience the kind of spacious, intentional conversations most people never get to have — guided by someone who blends trauma-informed expertise, mastery in human connection, and deeply attuned presence. Whether you’re monogamous, polyamorous, somewhere in-between, or still figuring that out—this space is built for you. A place where each person can fully express who they are, while building something shared and sacred together.
You'll walk away with:
Communication tools that land, so you feel heard and understood.
A deeper understanding of your emotional and erotic patterns.
Boundaries that feel nourishing — not rigid or restrictive.
Erotic compatibility insights that open new layers of pleasure and play.
Renewed trust and intimacy without sacrificing individuality.
All Relationship Styles Are Welcome Here
Monogamous • Polyamorous • Kinky • Queer • Neurodivergent • Hetero • Spiritual • Secular • Platonic • Romantic
I work with all kinds of partnerships, because what matters most isn’t the structure.
It’s that you both want to show up more fully and meet each other with truth and care.
Some of my clients are long-term nesting partners. Some are co-parents or newer couples navigating big next steps.Some are play partners, committed throuples, or exploring non-monogamy with open hearts.
What they have in common is this: a desire to feel more deeply connected, without losing themselves in the process.
This is coaching for real people in real relationships—where nuance, honesty, and depth are welcome.
Meet Lily
Your Guide to Exceptional Love
I’m Tigress Lily—relationship coach, certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach, professional Dominatrix, and a lifelong student of what makes love feel safe, alive, and deeply true.
I’ve lived across the relationship spectrum: 15 years in a devoted monogamous partnership, followed by years of thriving in polyamorous dynamics and relationship anarchy. I’ve experienced the beauty and mess of long-term intimacy, the disorientation of losing myself in love, and the radical power of reclaiming connection from a place of self-trust and wholeness.
Professionally, I bring a grounded, trauma-informed lens to relationship work.
My training includes:
Certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach (trained under Jaiya Ma)
Professional Dominatrix Training at Mistress Malissia’s Dominatrix Academy
Mentorship with Kimi Inch, expert in conscious kink and somatic release
Study in Internal Family Systems (IFS), Polyvagal Theory, and attachment theory
Facilitator and workshop leader in conscious kink, emotional intelligence, and relational embodiment
In every session, I hold space for all partners to be fully seen—without shame, without blame, and without the need to collapse who you are for connection. Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, kinky, neurodivergent, spiritually rooted, or still figuring things out—I meet you as you are.
My work blends structure and soul, erotic awareness and emotional fluency, autonomy and sacred intimacy. You don’t have to choose between being yourself and being loved. You get to have both.
What It's Like to Work Together
My style is conversational, therapeutic, and grounded in emotional safety.
This isn’t about labeling anyone the problem or over-intellectualizing your patterns.
It’s about helping you understand yourselves—and each other—on a nervous system level, with tools that actually work in real life.
I pull from attachment theory, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Polyvagal Theory, Erotic Blueprints™, and deep intuitive presence. Sessions flow naturally and meet you where you are. Sometimes light, sometimes intense—but always grounded, safe, and led with care. We’ll go as deep as you’re ready for—and sometimes, a little deeper than you thought you could.
This is not crisis counseling. This is private, high-touch coaching for couples ready to turn a good relationship into an extraordinary one. If you’re ready to experience the kind of intimacy, clarity, and connection most people only dream about — let’s begin.