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Discover What Truly Turns You On—in Your Body, Relationships, and Life
The Erotic Blueprints™, developed by Jaiya Ma, are a powerful framework for understanding how you're uniquely wired for arousal, desire, and pleasure. There are five core types:
• Energetic – Turned on by anticipation, space, and subtle energetic connection
• Sensual – Aroused through touch, ambiance, beauty, and emotional presence
• Sexual – Loves direct, raw, and instant access to pleasure
• Kinky – Excited by the taboo, power dynamics, and psychological or physical edge-play
• Shapeshifter – Thrives on variety, intensity, and the ability to play across all Blueprints
Most of us have a unique “stack”—a combination of types, with some dominant and others underfed or hidden in shadow. When you discover your Erotic Blueprint, everything starts to click. You begin to:
• Understand what kind of touch, communication, and connection you actually crave
• Communicate your needs and desires with more clarity and confidence
• Let go of shame or confusion around what arouses you
• Reclaim pleasure as a source of power, not pressure
• Create more fulfilling, satisfying, and deeply authentic relationships
This work isn’t about performance—it’s about liberation. It’s about getting clear on what turns you on, so you can feel secure in your pleasure, empowered in your body, and more at home in your truth.
This Work is for You If…
• You’ve struggled to feel fully satisfied or confident in your erotic life
• You and your partner(s) have mismatched desires or speak different erotic “languages”, and can’t figure out how to meet each other in full satisfaction
• You’ve felt numb, disconnected, or unsure of what actually turns you on
• You’re highly sensual or energetic and have been shamed for being “too much” or “too sensitive”
• You want to experience more joy, creativity, and turn-on—in the bedroom and beyond
This isn’t just about sex. It’s about knowing yourself more fully—and giving yourself permission to feel more. You don’t need a partner to do this work. I’ve guided many solo clients into a deeper connection with their bodies, desires, and everyday pleasure. I've even used Blueprints in business coaching to help clients design environments and roles that match how they’re wired to thrive. This isn’t about them. This is about you. In your wholeness.
What’s Included
• Private 1:1 Erotic Blueprints™ Coaching Sessions with me, customized to your desires, goals, and Blueprint stack
• A Free Subscription to Jaiya Ma’s full Erotic Blueprints™ online course with guidance throughout to help you maximize the insights for your specific situation.
• Tools, practices, and reflections to integrate the work into your sex life, your relationships, and your everyday experience of pleasure
• A judgment-free space to explore shame, desire, turn-on, and self-expression in your own time and your own way
About Me
I’m Tigress Lily—a certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach, trained Dominant, and embodiment mentor with over a decade of experience guiding others through personal transformation. My work sits at the intersection of erotic intelligence, emotional attunement, and nervous system safety. I’ve trained at Mistress Malissia’s Dominatrix Academy, and have been mentored by renowned somatic kink practitioner Kimi Inch, deepening my ability to guide clients through conscious kink, power dynamics, and emotional release work. My background also includes immersive study in Internal Family Systems (IFS), emotional intelligence facilitation, somatic integration, and trauma-informed care—all of which allow me to hold space for the most vulnerable parts of you with clarity, integrity, and compassion. This isn’t surface-level sex coaching. This is about coming home to your erotic truth. I’ve helped clients:
• Reclaim pleasure after years of disconnection or numbness
• Heal shame and internalized conditioning around desire
• Deepen intimacy in long-term partnerships through Blueprint understanding
• Explore kink or power dynamics in a way that feels conscious and safe
• Feel fully seen—sometimes for the first time—in their authentic erotic identity
My coaching is always client-led. Your pace, your boundaries, your body come first. Whether you’re navigating desire, shame, relational tension, or simply ready to explore new layers of yourself, I bring both fierce presence and a wide toolkit to help you feel grounded, held, and fully alive.
You don’t need to perform.
You don’t need to fit someone else’s mold.
You get to know what turns you on—and feel safe claiming it.
Let’s Unlock the Language of Your Erotic Self
Whether you’re in partnership or on your own, this is a journey into your deepest desires, your fullest pleasure, and the freedom that comes from understanding who you are. You’re not too much. You’re not broken. You’re just ready to be you. Let’s begin.