Imagine intimacy that feels aligned, secure, and deeply attuned.
Kink isn’t just about sensation—it’s a language of trust, self-expression, and connection.Whether you crave taking the lead or fully letting go, conscious kink can help you:
Understand yourself on a deeper level
Build unshakable trust with your partner(s)
Experience intimacy that feels both thrilling and safe
This isn’t about performative edge or shaky foundations. It’s about intentional, skillful play that honors your nervous system, your values, and your relationships.
For the Devoted,
the Curious, and the Ready
Lily works with:
Aspiring or evolving Dominants learning to lead with clarity, integrity, and attunement
Submissives ready to surrender with self-trust and emotional safety
Couples or play partners navigating new power dynamics with intention and care
Those craving sacred, sensual kink—not just sensation, but transformation
Newcomers seeking solid, shame-free foundations
Whether you’re brand new or deepening a decades-long practice, this is your space to explore without judgment.
What You’ll Learn –
and Unlearn
Every session is tailored to you and your dynamic(s). Together, we might explore:
Foundations of conscious kink – consent, negotiation, boundaries, aftercare, scene design
Dom/sub dynamics – what it really means to hold or surrender power with depth
Erotic archetypes – cultivating your inner Dominant, brat, caretaker, submissive, pet, or switch
Therapeutic scenes – using kink as a healing tool without reenacting trauma
Navigating multiple dynamics – polyamorous, open, or complex relationships
Spiritual & ritual kink – integrating energy, intention, and sacred practice
Kink & personal power – applying what you learn to leadership, communication, and self-expression
Why Work With Lily
Kink Education That Speaks to the Soul
There’s a lot of kink education out there—but very little that integrates psychology, spirituality, somatics, and sacred embodiment. Lily's approach is:
Trauma-informed – grounded in nervous system regulation (Polyvagal Theory), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and emotional intelligence
Experienced – over a decade in conscious kink, trained with leaders like Kimi Inch and Mistress Malissia
Embodied – having lived both Dominance and submission, she knows what it takes to create safe, powerful, devotional containers
"I don’t just teach you what to do—I help you understand why it matters, and how to do it well."
If you’re craving kink that’s more than just roleplay…
If you’re longing to:
Then you’re in the right place.
Meet Tigress Lily
I’m Tigress Lily—a certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach, professional Dominatrix, conscious kink practitioner, and witch.
I’ve trained under some of the most respected names in conscious kink, including Kimi Inch and Mistress Malissia, and have pursued advanced study in trauma-informed practices to help clients create play that heals, rather than harms.
My toolkit includes training in nervous system regulation (Polyvagal Theory), Internal Family Systems (IFS),emotional intelligence facilitation, and somatic embodiment techniques—all of which support deep, safe exploration of power, sensation, and surrender.
My path has taken me deep into both Dominance and submission. I’ve experienced profound transformation on each side—and I know what it takes to create containers that are powerful, devotional, and safe.
Whether you’re looking for technical skills, emotional clarity, or spiritual connection, I’m here to guide you with honesty, care, and fire.
Your Invitation
If you’re craving kink that’s more than just roleplay…
If you’re longing to embody your power, or surrender more fully…
If you’re ready to explore your edges in a space that honors your truth—
Let's Begin
Your desire isn’t too much.
Your power isn’t dangerous.
Your erotic self is waiting to be claimed.