from the inside out.
Your team is expanding—but instead of feeling empowered, you're overwhelmed.
You’re constantly putting out fires, leaving little time for the visionary work that lights you up.
Some days, you secretly wonder: “Am I even cut out for this?”
You’re exhausted from proving yourself and ready to build a business that actually feeds you.
You crave support that honors your intuition, desire, and power—not just your to-do list.
You didn’t start your business just to create another job for yourself. You started it because you had a vision—freedom, impact, ownership of your time.
But somewhere along the way, the business began running you.
You’re not alone. And you’re not doing it wrong.
The truth is: no one teaches us how to go from being good at what we do to actually building a business around it.
And once success starts to roll in, it often amplifies the pressure, not the freedom. That’s where I come in.
I’m not your typical business coach.
I won’t put you in a box or push you to follow a formula.
You didn’t start your business just to create another job for yourself. You started it because you had a vision. Freedom. Impact. Ownership of your time. But somewhere along the way, the business began running you. Maybe your revenue has grown fast, or maybe you’ve been at it for a few years now, making solid income—but still feel like you’re stuck at a certain level, unsure how to scale without sacrificing your sanity. Your team might be growing, but leading them feels overwhelming. You spend more time putting out fires than doing what actually lights you up. And some days… you wonder if you’re even cut out for this. You’re not alone. And you’re not doing it wrong. The truth is, no one teaches us how to go from being good at what we do to actually building a business around it. And once success starts to roll in, it often amplifies the pressure, not the freedom. That’s where I come in.
My approach is built for entrepreneurs like you—the ones who care deeply about their work, their clients, and their personal growth. You’re already successful, but you want to do it in a way that’s more easeful, intentional, and sustainable.
Together, we’ll work on:
• Operational Mastery – Streamlining your systems, building a team you trust, and finally making sense of your numbers without zoning out.
• Leadership & Mindset – Reclaiming your confidence, quieting imposter syndrome, and stepping fully into your CEO role with clarity.
• Work-Life Integration – Reconnecting to the life you actually want to live—and building the business to support that.
• Strategic Scaling – Creating structures and rhythms that honor your energy while expanding your impact.
I won’t push you to hustle harder or optimize every second of your day. Instead, I’ll help you drop back into your own rhythm—the one that allows for rest, creativity, and joy alongside momentum and growth. I’ve coached hundreds of business owners through this balance. Many of them are neurodiverse, emotionally intelligent, and more creative or sensitive than they’ve been allowed to admit in traditional business spaces. They often feel like outsiders in typical business coaching programs—until they find this one. I’ll meet you wherever you’re at, and we’ll walk the path together.
I’m Tigress Lily—a business coach, entrepreneur, and Erotic Blueprints™ Coach who weaves operational clarity with deep personal alignment. After scaling my hospitality consulting firm, Total Customized Revenue Management, to over $2 million in annual revenue, I now run it with a team—working just a few hours a month so I can focus on what I love most: helping other entrepreneurs build businesses that don’t burn them out. My coaching blends strategic clarity with psychological and somatic tools to help you overcome mindset blocks, step into your power, and design a business that truly supports your energy and vision. With over a decade of experience in leadership and operations, I draw on modalities like parts-based coaching (such as Internal Family Systems), nervous system regulation, and values-based leadership to guide clients toward calm, confident decision-making and authentic growth. Having consulted with over 700 hotels and led large teams, I know how to build systems that scale and feel good. My business coaching is designed for visionary entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders who are ready to work smarter, trust themselves more deeply, and build offers that align with their values and purpose. Whether we’re refining your operations, reimagining your role as CEO, or mapping out an aligned growth plan—I’m here to help you build a business that’s as sustainable as it is successful.
If you’re ready to get out of the weeds, reconnect to your purpose, and scale a business that works for you, let’s talk. Because you didn’t start this to be stuck in a grind—you started this to live. Let’s bring you back to that.