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You weren’t born to play small, people-please, or shrink to fit someone else’s mold.

Lily’s coaching helps you reclaim your desire, your leadership, and your voice—so you can build a life, business, and relationships that feel true to who you are.

Meet Tigress Lily

Founder and Headmistress of The Awakened Domme

Who Is Tigress Lily?

Tigress Lily is a business strategist, intimacy coach, and professional speaker who helps leaders, couples, and creatives reclaim their power, deepen their relationships, and embody their fullest expression. 

She began her career in hospitality, scaling her consulting firm—Total Customized Revenue Management (TCRM)—into a multimillion-dollar company that’s supported over 700 hotels. After building a team that allowed her to step back from the day-to-day, Lily pivoted into work that aligned even more deeply with her soul’s purpose: guiding others through personal transformation using the tools of conscious kink, somatic awareness, leadership coaching, and erotic empowerment. 

As a certified Erotic Blueprints™ Coach and a graduate of Mistress Malissia’s Dominatrix Academy, Lily brings over a decade of real-world experience in D/s dynamics, lifestyle kink, and spiritual exploration. Her approach is trauma-informed, psychologically rooted, and playfully irreverent—inviting clients to heal shame, honor their desires, and lead with intention. 

For couples and individuals, Lily offers coaching and immersive experiences that support conscious power exchange, deep trust, and emotionally safe erotic exploration. She works with clients across all relationship structures—monogamous, polyamorous, queer, and everything in between—helping them communicate with clarity, navigate complex dynamics with grace, and feel at home in their bodies and identities.

For entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders, Tigress Lily offers strategic business coaching that focuses on building ethical, soul-aligned ventures that scale sustainably—without burning out. Her clients learn to lead with clarity, hire and build teams in alignment with their values, and bring bold ideas to life in a way that feels nourishing and sustainable.

Whether you meet her on a stage, in a session, or in one of her transformative containers, Tigress Lily brings a potent mix of wisdom, warmth, and wildness. She’s here to challenge norms, expand what’s possible, and hold space for people to reclaim the truth of who they are—without apology.

TESTIMONIALS

Erotic Blueprint Workshop

I went to this workshop solo, something I never thought I’d have the courage to do. Intimacy has been a scary, off-limits topic for me. But deep down, I knew something beautiful was waiting for me on the other side of the fear. This workshop helped me see that. It gave me tools to feel safe in my body again, to trust myself again, to feel held instead of overwhelmed, and to explore connection without shame. It wasn’t easy to show up, but I’m so glad I did. For anyone walking through fear, confusion, or healing around intimacy… I see you. And this is a powerful and safe place to begin.

KT

Erotic Blueprints™ Workshop Attendee

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